12th Day of Christmas

Joey, Hasitha, & Nadira started singing the 12 days of Christmas. I got the video camera out in time to catch day 12. Hope you enjoy & Merry Christmas!

Joey with Santa 2009

Karen had a Christmas party for kids at her house. It was really fun. Joey had a great time and - surprise surprise - Santa showed up! Awesome! Check out Joe's smile - priceless!

Joey 1st front tooth lost 12-19-09

Hello!

Joey lost tooth #3 this morning- top front. It was loose for awhile & Joey has a funny story about what made it finally come out.

testing 1 2 3 Joey playing with airplane

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Hello! Long time no write. No worries. I'll write when I feel like. This is MY blog after all.



Anyway, I got a new toy - a Sharper Image mini digital video camera. I'm trying to figure out how to upload the video onto this page. Let's see ...

Is that it? If so, ta da!

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Halloween Horror

So, it's fine by me that some people don't believe in Halloween. Whether it's for religious reasons or for any other reason, I don't care. I wouldn't try to force it on them or convince them otherwise. I have no problem with them. It's their business. They don't have to participate. They can just turn off their porch lights and/or not answer the door, and they don't have to give out candy. No problem. I really don't care.

However ....

Along with way more candy than he could possibly eat in half a year, while out trick-or-treating in our neighborhood, my six-year-old son was given a cartoony booklet entitled "The Great One." No big surprise what this booklet is about. It's about Jesus. Well, no, I take that back. If it was just about Jesus and was an uplifting, positive story for children about Jesus and love and goodness that would be one thing.

But no. This is a story about a man, a highly educated scholar who is very proud of himself.
(P.S. - I don't think I'm imagining the man's Semitic features, either.) He has a daughter named Ashley. One day she goes to Sunday School and reads the Bible and learns about Jesus. She repents her sins and ~ hallelujah! ~ she knows she's gonna get to go to heaven when she dies. The next day she talks to her father the scholar and he says that he's too smart to believe in God and that "religion is only for the weak." So when her father dies, Jesus sends him to burn in hell in the lake of fire (cartoon renderings included, folks); and when Ashley dies, she goes to heaven.


Wait: now that I think about it, this not-so-very-nice little slice of Christianity is actually a quite appropriate Halloween haunt. I find it scary as hell (!) that there are people who think it is perfectly okay to pass this dreadful, fearful little story off to small children without parental permission. And what really pisses me off is that the nasty little people who hand this stuff out are undoubtedly the same people who claim that gay people are trying to brainwash and indoctrinate kids. Hah! What a laugh! Talk about brainwashed & attempted brainwashing!

As a footnote, let me mention an encounter I had about a month ago with a checker at my local grocery store. She told me that she doesn't believe in Halloween now that her children are grown (convenient!) because of Jesus, of course, because it comes from the devil. But it's okay for children, she said, because they don't know any better. Is that some twisted logic? I didn't challenge her; I just smiled and laughed to myself because I thought: if children don't know any better and it's the devil's work: wouldn't that make it LESS okay for children? Wouldn't they need extra protection and guidance? Are people really this stupid? Oh well, I guess that's what the booklet is for!

Hope you all had a very Happy Halloween!

:)

Women's Conference 2009 - I LOVE being a girl!

I've been attending the California Governor and First Lady's Conference on Women for the past four or five years now. My husband cracks a lot of jokes about it (evening, ladies!). So what is it and why do so many people pay so much money (about $200 - not a king's ransom, but around my house that's a lot of dough) to go every year?

Well, it starts with Maria Shriver, I guess. Ever since she's been our First Lady, she has transformed what I think used to be a more mild-mannered event into a full blown women's movement (check out the website if you like: http://www.californiawomen.org/) that now extends far beyond the conference itself. It's nothing to do with putting men down, it's just about recognizing and helping and appreciating women.

It's hard to describe what I/we get out of the conference. It makes you feel inspired, empowered, enlightened, and centered, among other things. It makes you laugh, cry, and think. It's also very entertaining. You get to see and hear from people you admire and people you never heard of. This year was no different. To give you an idea of what it's like, here's a kind of recap of my day there yesterday. Many wonderful, successful business- and other types of women speak throughout the day who I won't mention by name but who also leave an impression.

The morning session begins in the big arena. The main part of the morning was a panel discussion on leadership featuring our very own Governator, Sir Richard Branson (Virgin mogul), and Sheila Bair (FDIC chairman), moderated by Robin Roberts. My main takeaway from this: in order to succeed you've got to be prepared to fail - because you're going to, many times. Also included in the morning session: author/psychologist Cheryl Saban reminding us to use the compass we were born with - a phrase and a message that I liked very much. Then playwright Eve Ensler performed a loud and vibrant monologue from her new book I'm an Emotional Creature . To quote: I LOVE being a girl!

Following her was a Cambodian woman named Somaly Mam. She was a former slave, forced into prostitution, repeatedly and routinely raped and beaten. She spoke straight from the core of her own broken heart and it landed on all of our hearts, big time. Anyway, she was able to escape and now runs safe houses and rescues other young girls from Cambodian brothels but the situation is dire. She is desperate for help. Her speech has moved me from compassion to action. She has a website: http://www.somaly.org/ where you can find out more and help if you wish. It's definitely a worthy, worthy cause.

After the main morning session, you get to chose from several different breakout sessions. It was with mixed emotions that I bypassed the tantalizing notion of getting to see what Ashton Kutcher looks like in person, which I'm absolutely certain would have been "godlike." Instead, I chose to see/hear Katie Couric interview Annie Leibovitz. It was interesting and an excellent presentation: a great conversation with a slide show of many Leibovitz photos, including some of her parents, of Sarajevo, the Queen of England, and the Obama's. She even included a naked butt shot of the Governator. Funny. Great photos. A real artist. Pretty cool.

Some of my unchosen morning options: Linda Ellerbee (I just love her! always have) interviewing Captain "Sully" Sullenberger and Dara Torres . My sister saw this one, loved it, and passed on this nugget from Sully: when your values are clear, your choices are easy. There was also a panel discussion on Changing the World Through the Web (hello, Ashton!) or one about starting your own business. Or you could hear Elizabeth Smart on a panel talking about her abduction. Wow. Good stuff. A lot to choose from.

Back in the main arena, the lunch session began with David Gregory moderating a session about A Woman's Nation with Madeleine Albright, Valerie Jarrett, Amy Holmes, and Claire Shipman. Then Katic Couric talked about her life and career, about having been "born on a sunny day" and about some of her hardships and triumphs. Then Maria Shriver (who recently lost both her mother & uncle) led a discussion on Grief, Healing, and Resilience with Elizabeth Edwards and Susan Saint James (both lost a teenage son), and Lisa Niemi (Patrick Swayze's wife/widow). It was a very sad subject, but important and moving, and hopefully helpful to anyone dealing with issues of grief.

Wheee! So, following that heavyness, I went to my chosen afternoon session, which is the main thing I had been looking forward to all day: Linda Ellerbee interviewing Jane Goodall. Jane Goodall has been a hero of mine since I was a little girl. I never fantasized about being a ballerina or a princess like some girls do. Nope. Not me. I wanted to be like Jane Goodall: no makeup, hair in a ponytail, out alone in the wilds of Africa studying chimps. That was what seemed like a dream to me. I thought she was the bees knees and I still do. Her work now has expanded to protecting the planet and all the animals and plants and everything on it. Her message is simple: there is not a line that separates humans from the rest of the natural world, rather we are a part of that world. She told a wonderful story about a chimp that had shown compassion for a human caretaker, and then asked: if a chimp can show that much compassion, how can we with our larger, more developed brains be destroying our planet. It's a very good question, for sure.

Some other possible afternoon sessions I would have enjoyed : Cindy and Meghan McCain, along with Danika Patrick and her father, talking about Raising Strong Confident Children. Also, Arianna Huffington (always hilarious and brilliant) and others talking about Women in Power. There were also afternoon panels on money management and on Women Using Their Voices to Change the World.

Also during the day, we walked around "the village" - a marketplace full of free giveaways and stuff to buy. While there, I saw Jane Goodall and Dr. Oz signing books. I also saw Lisa Ling just quietly walking around and later saw a swarm of people and cameras as Maria Shriver walked around.

Back in the arena, the final part of the day is the Minerva Awards, which is the brainchild of Maria Shriver. She hands out awards (and $25,000 each, courtesy of Target) to some very deserving women who haved helped others in different ways. This year's awards went to: a woman who started "School on Wheels" which tutors homeless children, a woman who started a drug and alcohol treatment center for American Indians, a woman who started a pediatric hospice house for terminally ill children and their families (cry like a baby, I did), and lastly, Jane Goodall.

The day finished out with Alicia Keys, looking stunningly beautiful, speaking eloquently, and then singing and playing a song called "Superwoman" on the piano while photos from throughout the day played on the big screens.

All in all, a great day. Worth every penny.

:)

World's Best Jokes

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The September 2009 Reader's Digest published some jokes from around the world. Here are three of my favorites (paraphrased, not exact replications). ENJOY!

On his deathbed, a old man gathers his family around him and says "I need to tell you my greatest secret." His voice is weak so they lean in close to hear him. He says, "when I was young, I had a lot of girlfriends; I had money and fast cars. Then a good friend told me I needed to start a family or else no one would be there to give me a glass of water on my deathbed. So I took his advice. I got rid of the girlfriends and got married. I sold my cars and started college funds for my kids. And now here I am, and you know what? I'm not even thirsty!"

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The indian tribe asks their new chief if it's going to be a cold winter. But the new chief is young and never learned the ways of his ancestors. So he tells the tribe to go out and gather firewood, and while they're gone he calls the National Weather Service to ask. "Looks like it," he is told. So when the tribe comes back, the chief tells them it will indeed be a cold winter and sends them out to gather more firewood. A week goes by, and the chief wants to be sure, so he sends the tribe off again to gather more firewood and he calls the Weather Service again. "Are you sure it's going to be a cold winter?" he asks again, and is again told that it will be, so yet again he sends the tribe out to gather more firewood. While they are out, he calls the Weather Service one last time. "How do you know that it will be a cold winter?" the chief asks. "Because the indians are gathering firewood like crazy," is the answer.

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A city guy is out hunting in the country and shoots down a duck, but the duck lands in a farmer's field. The farmer claims that it is his duck since it fell in his field. After a bit of arguing, the farmer suggests an old-fashioned hick-kick. "I'll kick you in the crotch as hard as I can, and then you do the same to me, and whoever screams the least gets to keep the duck." The city guy agrees, so the farmer kicks him in the nuts, and the city guy falls to the ground in pain for several minutes. When the city guy is finally able to get up, he tells the farmer, "okay my turn." "Nah," says the farmer, "you can keep the duck."